Monthly Archives: August 2011

Your Marriage Is Not Lost

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There are a lot of words that people use to describe their marriage whenever it is breaking up. Perhaps one of the most difficult term that can be used, however, is irreparably broken. Unfortunately, there are times whenever a marriage is simply beyond any point of repair but that is not typically the case. If you think that you’re holding onto anything of your marriage and if at least a little part of you does not want to see it go, it is not too late for the two of you to repair what is lost and to get back up on your feet again.

Most of us like to be taken at our word and the marriage vow is one of the most serious things that you can take in your life. It means that you are promising that you’re going to love each other as long as you are both alive. That is why many of us that are facing divorce feel as if we have failed so miserably. How could something that was so strong at one time have ended up becoming weakened so quickly? These are the type of questions that we find that we are asking ourselves whenever we are facing what we consider to be the inevitable.

If you are in this situation, you might like to know that you’re not alone and that it certainly is possible for you to repair your broken marriage. What you’re going to need to do, however, is step back and take an honest look at what went on and what can be done in order to fix it. More than likely, you’re going to focus in on one or two different events that you feel were the breaking point of your marriage but perhaps you need to look a little deeper. Often, these large chunks that were taken out of our marriage are a result of smaller pieces that have been chipped away over time.

Before you take that final step and end up in a situation where you may have regrets for the rest of your life, speak to your marriage mate and see if there is something that can be done in order for the two of you to repair the situation. If you’re willing to work together on it, there is still hope. I’m not saying that it is going to be easy and at times, it may be downright difficult. If you have reached the point of divorce, you are probably feeling the strain anytime the two of your together. It is necessary for you to get beyond this in order for the healing to begin.

You can either take care of this yourself and work together amicably or bring in a third party that is neutral in order to discuss the situation with you. Often, somebody that has a fresh view on matters will be able to help you to get beyond the smaller things that you are unable to see beyond at this point. Will it take work? Yes it most certainly will but the results are going to be well worth it if you’re able to save your marriage.

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Are You Getting Cheated – Try This Quiz

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So you think that your partner might be cheating you? Why do you think that? Why not try this small quiz and find out the truth? A quiz is always very helpful in finding the truth. The quiz questions are simple such as- Does your partner not love you? Does he/she not share the expenses? Do they look at others and try to give flirting signs even if they are with you? Are they keeping relations with their ex even now? Or is it just a felling that you are being cheated either physically or emotionally? Let us take this quiz and find the truth.

Quiz sixth sense-

Many times, the feeling that we are being cheated is itself an evidence of something going wrong. Our sixth sense tells us that. Our conscious mind may fail to take the hints but the subconscious will do. So while taking this quiz donít ignore the inner signals.

Quiz cheating patterns-

Did you find your partner talking to somebody on phone and then disconnect the phone as soon as they saw you? Is your partner wary of sharing the mail password with you? Are you finding that their cell phone bills are more than normal? Do they go out without informing you and make some excuse when you ask? Are any outside business trips involved? What about late work at the office? Or unscheduled work related meetings? Do they look at you eye to eye while talking? Or avoid talking and walk around while talking? Do you hear telephone bell and when you pick up the phone, line goes dead?

Quiz and get the truth-

These are some of the signs that something might be wrong? Not necessarily cheating. Why not quiz your partner and find the truth? Quizzing point by point will surely tell you the truth.

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Young Love?

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Here in the western world we are obsessed with youth. Our media is saturated with images of the young, beautiful and happy selling us products on the back of the promise that we will become like them if we should only buy this face cream or that car or this insurance policy. The fantastic and circular equation this fallacy is based on seems to be that youth=beauty=success=desirability=love=happiness=youth etc. One only has to look at our icons of romance to see the indelible link between youth and romance. In fact, two of our most famous romantic icons, Juliet and Pocahontas (as lauded by Peggy Lee in the classic love song ‘Fever’) were so young at the time of embarking on their turbulent romances that they would not, today, be considered of legal age. In amongst all this, ne could easily be left with the impression that beyond the age of thirty, all hope for romance is lost.

Happily this is not so! Our senior citizens are getting involved in the dating game in their droves. Actually in all probability they have been doing it for years but the older generation, certainly in Britain, are renowned for their discretion almost to the point of coyness. Luckily for social analysts and writers like myself, a convergence of recent phenomena makes it possible to now gain a much fuller impression of just what our seniors are getting up to!

Recent years have seen an explosion in the number of ‘silver surfers’, that is to say people of retirement age or above who are web literate to a greater or lesser extent and are making regular use of the Internet. The same period has seen a rapid growth in the online dating industry. The result of these two phenomena is that we can see quite plainly, looking at the figures, that it’s definitely not just the young folks who are looking for love online. A recent study carried out by my company revealed over 14,000 active dating site users over the age of 65 compared to an average age group membership of just over 25,000. With numbers like this it’s understandable that seniors are regarded as an important demographic by us in the online dating industry and hardly surprising that classes in Internet dating are springing up at places like the Pleasant Hill Senior Centre in Contra Costa, California.

With a population that is increasingly ageing as the baby boom generation reach their 60s and take a greater knowledge and awareness of current and developing technologies into their later years, it can only be expected that this phenomenon will increase. And so it should be! Why should the spring chickens get a monopoly on the joys of spring?

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