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Should We Use Pornography to Enhance Our Sex Life?

This can be a tricky question, because there is no clear cut answer. There are several factors that are involved in order to fully and correctly answer that question.

The first is whether both of you are interested in watching porn together, or at least open to trying it. Another is how is being used?

If one of you is watching, ignoring the other one then that isn’t really enhancing anything. But if you both agree and you are using to get you both aroused before sex then it can be something that adds to the experience.

Bottom line is it depends on the couple and how it is being used as to whether it will be good for you and your spouse.

So, if you decide to try it where do you begin because telling your spouse you are interested in watching porn with them can be awkward. You could bring it up when you are having a cuddling session and talk about your fantasies. Or maybe rent a movie with a bit of sexual content and use that to open the door to some conversation.

Don’t be surprised or disappointed if your spouse seems reluctant at first. He or she might be concerned that they will be compared to the hot sexy bodies on the videos, because that is what is on there and that can be intimidating. You need to assure your spouse that it is more about the acts that arousing and that you will not compare them or expect them to look like or act like anyone in the video.

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Also be aware that men and women tend to get turned on differently. Men are usually aroused by visual images and women are usually aroused by spoken words or written words.

Once you get the go ahead from your spouse there are several ways to use porn to enhance your sex life.

-Try out one of the positions from the movie.

-Watch the video and cuddle and caress each other.

-View the entire video before you make love.

-Have sex in a position while you watch the video too.

-Give your partner oral sex while you watch the video.

Picking a video out can be a bit daunting the first time. So, if you are comfortable enough go to the local adult shop and ask for a video that has a plot, story line and a lot of erotic language.

If you are not so comfortable there is of course online shopping, but you won’t have the aid of an expert. But it will come in a plain box so as not to bring any attention to it and you can then view it privately, at your leisure.

Adding porn to enhance your sex life is a very personal choice. Each couple has to decide it that is something that will enhance or hurt their individual relationship. It is very important that if you are going to use it, both partners are on board or you will end up with a disaster on your hands. But if both couples are open to exploring it, it can certainly enhance your sex life.

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