Methods to Repair Your Relationship And Making Up
There comes a point when you realize there is something wrong and that if you don’t do something soon you may
not have anything left to save.
This is a relationship in serious trouble and if you have gotten to this point you have let it get way too far.
The way to repair your relationship and make up faster is to catch the
problem as early as possible.
And I mean even before you get married. If you can deal with issues before you make the commitment you will save
yourself a whole lot of pain later on, down the road.
To begin you have to figure out what the major issues are to begin with. It is a good idea to sit down with your
significant other and talk about the things that bother you. It is equally important to realize there is no one
person at fault. In a relationship there are two people and both people are responsible for the issues and solving
Once you know what the main issues are you have a shot at dealing with them head on. And that is exactly what
you should do. Don’t pretend they aren’t there or you are just postponing the inevitable. It is also important to
only deal with one at a time. If you try to fix five things at one you aren’t going to get very far.
So, pick one and talk about it and try to pinpoint the actual problem. It probably isn’t that he didn’t do the
dishes last night, but could be that she felt like she had made the meal so he should do his part by doing the
dishes, thus contributing to the relationship.
Another method is to for you and your partner to learn how the other works in terms of discussing issues. Do you
two do better sitting down and talking about them and hashing it out until you figure it out? Or do you two do
better with, shorter conversations?
And by opening up those lines of
communication you show the other person that you want to be open with them. That you don’t want to keep things
from them and that you hope they will be equally open with you.
The next way involves adding an unbiased third party. It is a hard step for most couples to take because it
means acknowledging that there is a big problem and you need help. It requires you both to take the step together
and that in all in itself is a huge step in the right direction.
Remember, in most cases both you and your partner are responsible for the problems in your relationship. That
means it will take both of you to fix it. The issue or issues could stem from not communicating, pretending the
problem is not there, or an issue with sex.
To repair the relationship and make up faster you have to focus on the lines of communication, and by doing that
you can definitely make progress in the right direction to repairing the damage.
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