Instant Relationship Breakthroughs
Most people have been taught that change takes forever. And yes some changes take time, like losing weight the
right way, or quitting smoking. But some things can change very quickly, like if you live in Ohio, the weather
changes sometimes by the minute.
Or on a more serious note, relationships can also be changed quickly. This change is called a relationship
Let’s begin by defining what a relationship breakthrough is. It is when one or both of you make your own change
or shift and by doing that something feels different immediately between the two of you. It may come in the form of
a connection, or the communication on a particular topic
smooth’s over, but you will both feel it.
What is great about these breakthroughs is that you can help facilitate them, so that your relationship with
your partner just gets stronger and better. So how do you do that you ask, keep reading and we will look at a few
different ways to create instant relationship breakthroughs.
The first step is to be proactive, take responsibility and control of your life. If you don’t have the love of
your life, in your life, you are the one who is stopping that from happening. You can blame the world for
everything, but ultimately you have the control.
So think about what big or little changes you can make to let the wall down and open yourself up for what you
want to find the love you seek. You goal isn’t to change yourself into something you are not, but to change and
tweak what you are to be better.
The next step is to “tie off all the strings”. We all have things that have been left undone or incomplete.
Perhaps it is unresolved feelings for someone, or a project you started that you regret not finishing. You need to
take the time and effort to wrap them up so you can move forward. Those strings pull on us from time to time
holding us back.
How do you think people stay married for 30 years? One of the biggest things you will hear is that they don’t go
to bed mad, meaning they close that argument or disagreement up before going to bed, and by doing that they
eliminate any anger, and keep the resentment from building. Resentment can definitely be a major blocker and use up
a whole lot of energy.
Do you remember your Mom telling you it takes more muscles to frown than it does to smile? The same goes with
using energy. It takes way more energy to be mad, to hold grudges and to hold onto negative energy of any kind.
That is why it is so important to make the big and little changes and finally close doors.
And every time we make a change we get one step closer to our ultimate goal. Every time we complete something
that was left undone we gain energy that was being used for feeling guilty about not finishing that particular
relationship or project.