How to Reignite a 'Flat' Relationship
If you have been in your relationship for some time and it seems to have gone flat, then you are looking for
ways to reignite the passion and intimacy
that you once had.
Do you remember what it used to be like when you couldn't wait to see your partner? Do you wonder what is
missing that has caused you to lose interest in each other?
No one wants to settle for a boring relationship but there are some ways that you can reignite your passion.
* Spontaneity is one of the things that you often lose first in a relationship and that can take the spark out
of your romance. Fortunately, all you have to do to get spontaneity back is to, well, be spontaneous! Do things
that you wouldn't normally do.
Buy some massage oil that heats up and give each other a massage. Go to an adult toy store and don't leave until
each of you has chosen something, then take them home and try them out.
Write a note to leave in his briefcase to tell him what you have planned for later. Call her at home and tell
her that you can't wait to spend time with her that evening.
There is no end to the things that you can do on the spur of the moment that will keep your minds on the right
things and build anticipation that you believed you had lost. You don't have to make love in an elevator to be
spontaneous, you just have to use the power of suggestion by saying and doing things you wouldn't normally
* Get a babysitter and go out without the kids. Some parents think that they are overindulging themselves by
leaving their kids behind. The reality is, your kids need a break from you, too. They also need parents who are
happy and have a strong, loving relationship.
* You know those little coupon books you can get that allow the recipient to "cash them in" whenever they want?
Give your partner a book of those or make up some of your own with some special "gifts" that he or she really
likes. Don't put any restrictions on them and always agree when he wants to use one of them.
While this may not sound appealing to you to have to do something when you really may not be in the mood for it,
it is a great way to create spontaneity and you will probably get into the mood much faster than you thought!
* Some couples go a little farther than others to ignite their passion but you should both be in agreement
before you try anything. If you don't have trouble with dressing up with a wig and going to a bar where your
partner can "pick you up" then you can add the excitement of giving him an experience with someone new without the
risk or damage that comes from a real chance encounter.
Fantasy games are a popular way for many couples to ignite a flat relationship by introducing new
personality and practices into their normal ones which have grown stale.
Start by talking about your fantasies that you have never shared before to determine if acting them out might be
a real passion builder!
The Time for Change
Few people fail to get into relationship ruts over time and the only way to get out of them is to change what
you are doing into something more interesting and more exciting. Change how you dress, what you say, and maybe
where you draw the line. This is a great way on how to save your marriage if
you are currently having relationship problems.
Sometimes the best way to ignite your passion is to get your partner thinking about what he or she really likes
to do that you may not be so crazy about. If you are willing to put forth the effort, you can put the fire back
into your relationship!
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