Getting Back Together With Your Ex Do’s And Don’ts
When you start feeling lonely and down in the dumps, one of the things that might get to your head is getting
back with your ex.
Just the thought of it would already make it a very challenging, if not impossible, task to do but it does not
always have to be that way.
Thinking of putting it into action may already scare you considering that a lot of people who have gone through
this path have found themselves dumped and rejected no matter what they did. Avoid such situations and do things
right this time.
Here are a few tips that you can follow on how to get
back with your ex successfully.
1) Give Some Time.
If you had a painful breakup with your ex then it may be best to give it some time before you try to make a move
again. Make sure that the both of you are no longer hurting and have coped up with the break-up. Time heals all
wounds they say and this may give you both the chance to work on the issues that had led to your eventual
2) Have a Talk with Your Ex.
Being in good terms with your ex will allow you to be able to comfortably talk with each other about your
relationship and the issues that led to your break-up. Talking will allow the both of you to express their
innermost feelings and could eventually help you get back together as you try to patch things up.
3) Face Issues Straight Out.
Stop playing the mind games. Do not go out with another date just to make your ex feel jealous. If you have
certain issues that you need to talk to the other person about, it would be best that you tell it straight out than
when you let the other person do the guessing game. Doing so will help you resolve your problems together and when
you have both settled your differences, there could be a big chance of winning back a lost love eventually.
4) Do Not Push Yourself on Your Ex.
Pushing yourself to hard on your ex would only annoy and irritate the other person and thus lessen your chances
of being able to patch things up. Give your ex a chance to think over the decision of getting back with you
carefully and do not force the other to say yes (certainly you would not want to be in a relationship that is
against the other person’s will). Give your ex some time and try your best not interfere with that. Remember that
you two have broken up so rules that apply to couples will no longer work for the both of you.
5) Be Sincere with Your Intentions.
Your ex may be wondering why you would want to be getting back with him or her. Remember that it is not only
your feelings that are at stake but also that of your ex’s. Be sure that you are genuine about your intentions of
getting back with your ex and that you have no hidden agenda whatsoever. You could hurt your ex even more and would
destroy your friendship with the ex.
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