Working With Your Ex Boyfriend To Get Back Lost Love
Relationships with guys can be fantastic but they also can drift towards separation. Yet, when couples break up,
it is still possible to breach the rift.
By working with your ex-boyfriend to get back lost love; you
can achieve a new foundation together but it requires patience.
Getting Over Hurt
Healing from the pain of your break-up takes time but is the first step in coming together. Regardless of the
reasons, you both have to be on the same page.
The best way to help your man to heal as well as give you the support you need is to take your boundaries down
and admit your mistakes. By being real, you essentially allow him to open up which is harder for men to do. Discuss
how you both felt and be sure it is not one sided.
Learning to Communicate Effectively
Believe it or not there is a right and a wrong way to communicate. Becoming defensive, pointing fingers and
attacking each other is definitely the wrong way.
In working with your ex-boyfriend to get back lost love, suggest a therapy game. Pass an object back and forth
taking turns talking and hearing each other. Be sure to express your interpretation of what he is feeling to insure
you have it right and have him do the same.
Many arguments stem from silly misunderstandings pertaining to the way men and women communicate. This can be
fixed if you take the time to develop good
Couples can lose trust in one another rather quickly. One hurtful comment can send him running to his man cave
and locking the door. Work with each other to dissect the areas in your relationship where you have trust issues.
Are you comfortable discussing disagreements? Do you share secrets and deep emotional feelings? Are you jealous or
If not, what are the reasons or what is the trigger that causes conflict? Trust is the most important part of
any relationship and without it, you cannot resolve anything. Share your deepest feelings to give your partner
reason to trust you.
Friendship and Compromise
In order to restart your relationship it will be important to establish your friendship once again. Try finding
new things to talk about. Explore new parts of yourself and give each other a fresh outlook. Also, whatever your
reasons for the break-up, it may be necessary to discuss a compromise. Find ways to give and take to incorporate
avenues to help each other feel good.
Once you figure out and continue working with your ex-boyfriend to get back lost love, you will be able to
reconcile your differences and cling to one another through your growing process. Establishing a new found
friendship and working towards a more solid foundation will help you both achieve the lost love you are
“You can’t stop loving or wanting to love because when it’s right, it’s the best thing in the world. When you’re
in a relationship and its good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is
complete.” –Keith Sweat
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